simple needs
I've realised that human beings are indeed difficult to please. We are not easily contented either.I use to think that I don't ask for much in a partner. I just want someone who makes me happy, makes me laugh. Sounds like such a simple criteria and i was really proud of that. Till one day i asked myself "So what makes me happy?" and I realise that it was not such a simple answer after all. In fact, I don't have the answer.
Similarly, I have heard
"I am a simple guy with simple needs"
: "So what do u want?"
"I'm looking for a companion"
:"sounds simple enough but it seems like you have exceptionally high expectations regarding the companion"
Life is multi-faceted. Diabolical at times. Simple statements have a complex side. Complex issues, are on retrospect, pretty simple after all.
The process of forgetting, letting go and moving on goes like this:
1. Feel relieve that whatever it is has ended.
(Glad that I don't constantly think of him, wait in anticipation for his every sms/phone call etc.)
2. You start missing it.
(No sms, no one misses u, no one cares... thats sad)
3. You realise its never going to come back and finally, you move on.
posted by eline @ 7:29 PM
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