therein lies the problem
g: me and her, we will not last beyond 6 monthsK: but how do u know?
g: because we are just so different!
K: but you don't know for sure do u?
g: its just going to end badly
therein lies the problem. Its called expectations. Based on perhaps character, g thinks that a relationship will be meant to last. K thinks that he is just being presumptuous. I agree. In every relationship we get involve in, there is always a risk. At least for me, I never know if it will work out. I just have to sure of one thing, that is, I am willing to try. That i want to try. I have dated people who i thought will be right for me, but i was wrong. i have learned that when it comes to love and a lasting relationship and supposedly finding "the One" -- the formula is way too complex. Its not just about the other party, sometimes it has a lot to do with ourselves. My brother says some people think that they are unhappy because they are not attached. By thinking this way, they are expecting their future bf or gf to make them happy. However, when such expectations are not fulfilled, people wind up more miserable then before. The thing is, to first learn how to be happy alone. You can't bring your misery into a relationship and expect the other person to make it all disappear.
posted by eline @ 1:37 AM
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